Arguments and discussions can lead to ugly places. Having an arguments is necessary in order to achieve solutions at times. In my previous Blog Destructive Arguments I mentioned what NOT to do during an argument. Here are 10 Tips that can help you have more constructive arguments and reach understanding:
- Set aside a quiet time to discuss the problem
- Take turns in talking
- Respect each other’s turn even if you don’t like what you’re hearing
- Keep the discussion to ONE single conflict at a time
- Don’t judge, concentrate on the facts
- Avoid bringing back unrelated differences from the past
- LISTEN!!!! Even if you disagree with what the other person is saying
- Validate others FEELINGS despite the different opinions or points of view
- Show that you care
- Ask questions to clarify confusions
Difficulties communicating are very common among couples and relationships. If you’re struggling to communicate with your partner or a family member maybe it’s time to seek professional help. If you need to talk to someone about problems in your relationship please consider seeking the help of a professional.
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